!! When, where, whom and why we will have to meet is an interesting fact hidden in the womb of the future. In the same sequence, nature selects the life partner of a human being, which we know as marriage ceremony. The sixteen rituals of Indian tradition have an important role in the establishment of the household for the completeness of human life. Different arrangements and traditions of marriage ceremony have been followed in the four yugas.
In every era, there have been many anomalies in most of the marital lives. The marital life of Lord Shri Ram Ji, Devadhidev Mahadev Ji and the marriage of Lord Shri Krishna Ji presents a unique proof in history. In every marital life, happiness, sorrow and the truth of life and death have been going on together.
The subject of contemplation is the marital life of Kaliyug in which only 20% of the marital lives are successful, and in western countries, even after the constitutional marriage ceremony of a man and a woman, many relationships like marriage are formed and broken. The main reason for this is the rotation of the time cycle of the planets created by the fate of their previous birth. According to Jyotish Shastra, it has been seen many times that even after horoscope matching, many exceptions are born in married life and even after horoscopes are not matched, there is imbalance in the married life. This human birth is balanced, only then one link after another determines the basis of complete happiness.
After all the other reasons for discrepancies in marital happiness, we consider the main reason to be the marriage not being conducted in the right auspicious time in a proper manner. The question arises that during the marriage of Ram Ji and Shiv Ji and in that era, everything was done according to the auspicious time and Vedic rituals, yet their married life was not seen to be very satisfactory and happy or in historical texts, there is a description of many separations and sorrows of their marriage.
It is necessary to clarify here that the incarnations who appeared and the leela they created was only an undertaking to bring tradition into practice in the world and to set an ideal for the humans who are born, so that the human race walks on the same path and roams the world by connecting with the system of construction, operation, creation and merger of every era.
God cannot be compared to the life cycle of a human being. Man is a creature made of 84 lakh points of the chakra. He has been ordered by nature and man to live his life by following the dignity, tradition and worldly system, religion, scriptures.
If we follow the rules of our tradition and scriptures in every marriage ceremony, then surely all married lives will be happy, prosperous and balanced. From horoscope matching, selection of auspicious time, following Vedic system in marriage ceremonies and marriage being conducted as per the marriage system.
But it is sad that in Kaliyug all the works are done but the work that should be done does not happen, the reason behind this is our chaotic lifestyle, considering religion and karma as just a rule and doing it on the basis of imitation and herd mentality.
As a result, in a gap of one day to maximum one or three or five years, the subject of marriage becomes public and is governed under the legal system. If somehow by maintaining sociality and humanity, it survives for a few days, then children become an example of hindrance, troubles, quarrels and finally human misery.
Due to this problem almost ten people of two families are affected. The new generation is afraid of the subject of marriage, they consider independent life to be better than married life. It will be better and beneficial for all intellectuals of us to ponder over this issue and get it done as per Vedic and religious rules in the society and after closely examining all the aspects, under the supervision of good Acharyas as per Shastra Vidhan.
Please proceed ahead after consulting Vedic experts, knowledgeable Acharyas before starting the marriage ceremony and by following the Vedic system, certainly the anomalies in marriage rituals will improve and the existence of many important families will be safe. Presented with thanks by Karmayogi Foundation.